How to plan your dream gay wedding in Thailand – a complete guide
On June 18, following more than two decades of advocacy by LGBTQ+ activists and a long, tiresome game of legislative ping-pong, the land of smiles finally scored a monumental win with the legalisation of same-sex marriage, making it the first Southeast Asian country and third Asian jurisdiction to do so! The historic law will come into effect 120 days after being published in the Royal Gazette, meaning the first same-sex marriages could take place as early as this year… right now, we can almost hear the collective buzz of excitement as couples around the globe flip through bridal magazines and Pinterest mood boards, mapping out their dream gay wedding in Thailand.
But, before you dive headfirst into flower arrangements and cake tastings, let us guide you through the essentials of tying the knot in this beautiful country.
First things first
If you’re a foreign couple planning to get married in Thailand, there are a few legal hoops to jump through. Don’t worry, it’s not as daunting as it sounds. For the nitty-gritty details, your best bet is to consult the official Thai embassy or consulate website in your country. They’ll provide the latest info on required documents and procedures.
Timing is also everything. Thailand’s climate can be a little temperamental depending on the time of year, so you might want to plan your wedding during the cool, dry season from November to February. This period offers the most pleasant weather, perfect for an outdoor ceremony without the risk of your makeup melting or a monsoon shower stealing your thunder – although, ultimately, it all depends on your desired ceremony style and the area of the country you wish to explore.
You’re also going to want to set a budget. It’s easy to get carried away with extravagant ideas, but keeping a clear budget in mind will help you make decisions that are both beautiful and financially sensible. Start by listing your priorities – whether it’s the venue, catering, or the photographer – and allocate funds accordingly. Don’t forget to account for hidden costs such as transportation, tips, and emergency expenses.
Destinations & Venues
One thing that has always made Thailand the ultimate wedding and honeymoon destination is its diversity of regions, each with its own unique flavour and charm. There is quite literally something for every taste.
If you love the beautiful chaos of city life then Bangkok is your go-to choice. With its swanky hotels and dizzying rooftop venues, the capital is perfect for a sophisticated urban wedding. If sand between your toes is more your style, Phuket’s velvety beaches and upscale resorts are calling your name. For a dose of culture and tranquillity, head to Chiang Mai, where lush mountains and historic temples provide a timeless wedding backdrop. And let’s not forget Koh Samui, an island paradise ideal for a more relaxed, intimate celebration.
Call us melodramatic, but we think that selecting the right venue is almost as important as finding the right ring (or finding the right person to put the ring on, for that matter!) – it’s all about the perfect match. So, it’s important to determine which kind of ceremony you’re after.
Is it a barefoot, everybody-in-linen, sunset-on-the-beach type of vibe? Or are you leaning towards a cosmopolitan rooftop affair where the city lights coordinate with your sparkling new accessory? Perhaps a mountaintop vow exchange with fairy lights and jungle views as far as the eye can see? Whatever your vision, you’ll find the ideal setting in our comprehensive list of LGBTQ-friendly hotels and venues.
Hiring LGBTQ-welcoming vendors
The key to a flawless gay wedding in Thailand? Finding the right professionals who not only understand your vision but also resonate with your values. It’s crucial to work with vendors who are experienced in LGBTQ+ weddings and can navigate the local landscape with ease.
Let’s talk wedding planners. Pure Bliss Wedding, Wedding Boutique Phuket, and Wonders & Weddings, amongst many others, all specialise in LGBTQ+ weddings, providing comprehensive services that encompass venue selection, photography, catering, and entertainment in destinations all over Thailand. There are also a variety of resorts like Aleenta Phuket Resort & Spa and The Pavilions Phuket that offer fantastic customisable LGBTQ+ wedding packages.
Capturing those unforgettable moments is just as important. Erica Camille Productions are renowned for their ability to snap beautiful, candid moments with a creative flair, while Chasing Film Productions (run by a gay couple who themselves got wedded in the Land of Smiles) specialises in videography.
We hope this guide has helps you navigate the exciting journey of planning your perfect gay wedding in Thailand. As you celebrate your love and start your new life together, remember that the best is yet to come – the honeymoon, of course! For an unforgettable romantic escape, be sure to check out some of these LGBTQ-Friendly honeymoon hotels and resorts!